I have a 2.5 year old and a 20 month old both with special needs that I need some help with. I am having my third baby in May and we have no support system to help with this transition. The 2.5 has Down Syndrome so she is developmentally delayed (not walking or talking yet) but other than needing a pill every morning, she has no medical needs. The 20 month old is autistic and non verbal. Both kids are easy going and very "chill". Family home is a clean - no pets, non- smoking atmosphere. Kids have had limited exposure to being without mom or dad.